Parenting | Maryam's Coaching

Have you ever asked yourself these questions:

How is it that I can handle literally ANY situation in the real world, but parenting my own 8-year-old is killing me?
How am I ever going to feel good about myself if my child is so defiant and non-compliant?
Why does every interaction turn into a nerve-racking power struggle?
What should I do about her being ungrateful and her frustrating sense of entitlement?
How do I ever set and hold boundaries when my child breaks them every single time?
How do I set screen time without having to hear my children argue endlessly?
How on earth do other parents have it all figured out? How come I can’t get it right even after reading so many self-help and parenting books?
How do I get over feelings of resentment and being taken advantage of, as my child bends the rules and steps over limits and boundaries?
How can I really love my child unconditionally when he is always being so difficult and disrespectful?
What if I’m messing her up? Worse than that, what if I have already messed her up and it’s now too late?
What do I do with my heavy burden of guilt and shame?
My child has so much potential but why doesn’t he live up to it?
How come no matter what I do, I’m never good enough?
How am I possibly going to survive her teenage years?

I get it, you’re hustling trying to make this parenting thing work. You have doubts and questions that seem to be mostly related to your child’s temperament, right? But have you considered they could also be related to how you perceive your child and your circumstances? In fact, these concerns could have more to do with your programmed outlook on life, your personality, your parenting style and your own childhood painful experiences – AND that’s good news. You can only change what you can control, and although other people and circumstances are not always under your control, YOU are. You can change your life by taking full responsibility over YOUR thoughts, beliefs, feelings and actions and create the life you desire.

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Adults who ground their parenting in a solid relationship with the child, parent intuitively. They do not have to restore to techniques or manuals but act from understanding and empathy. "Gabor Mate"

Parenting, spirituality and conscious connections

I'm an educator and a professional certified coach. I fell in love with Rumi and his teachings when I was in college and discovered Carl Gustav Jung a few years later. I devoured both of their crazy brilliant work with an unquenching thirst. Later in life I delved into shadow work and tapped into the world of subconscious to discover parts of me that were hidden, denied, shamed and rejected. The peace I felt after processing waves of heavy emotion related to each discovery was authentic and priceless.

My body of experience allows me to bring a taste of Eastern spiritual principles to blend in with practical coaching tools to help you discover and re-evaluate your limiting beliefs and heal old childhood wounds tucked deep in your subconscious. These wounds or splits in your psyche cause tension in parenting your strong-willed child and keep you stuck in repeating patterns of yelling, conflict, overcompensation, guilt and shame.

Ready to release frustration, stop yelling and reboot your parenting style? Click below to hop on a complimentary 1:1 call and find how we can work together.

Here’s what you’ll walk away with:

The exact process I used to go from feelings of inadequacy, overwhelm, frustration and guilt in my parenting to radical acceptance, self-compassion, calm, ease and joyful connections

Learn how to move away from making decisions rooted in ego (located in the survival region of your brain that’s made up of the brain stem, limbic system and parts of the left brain motivating you through feelings of fear, stress, guilt, shame, insecurity and anger)

Learn how to activate and make decisions rooted in your inner wisdom (located in the middle prefrontal cortex and parts of the right brain, motivating you through feelings of curiosity, empathy, creativity, passion and purpose)

Getting clarity with diagnosing your parenting style, identifying your patterns and breaking the vicious cycles of your programming

Building new skills of self-regulation, inner dialogue and conscious choice making

Learn how to build more resilience to avoid burnout

Learn how to most effectively manage your time

Here are the results you will create:

More connection with your child
More understanding
Less drama
More ease and joy
Less overwhelm, shame, mom guilt
Less frequent power struggles
More cooperation from your child

Let’s make sure you are a perfect fit for this!

My coaching is FOR YOU if...

You are a successful professional mom in your midlife, looking to create the same high levels of fulfillment with parenting your strong-willed child

You are open to believing that parenting your child is a gateway to your unique spiritual awakening

You value authenticity over happiness

You have already tried traditional parenting methods and it has become clear to you that how you are connecting to your kid and interacting with them isn’t working. You are ready to move on from being a tiger mom and try a more conscious, more gentle and more positive approach. You are ready to put down beliefs, values, rigid expectations and assumptions that don’t serve you anymore.

You know deep in your core that your connection with your child is the most important goal you pursue in parenting.

Your relationship with your child is a top priority for you right now. You are ready, excited and committed to showing up during your coaching sessions. The magic of coaching only works for those who prioritize it and are willing to do the inner work.

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